Privacy & Control

Selective Memory

Allow users to control what AI remembers, forgets, or temporarily ignores, with clear mechanisms for viewing, editing, or deleting stored context and preferences.

Problem

AI systems remember and use information without giving users visibility or control over what's stored. Users can't selectively forget sensitive information or temporarily exclude context that's no longer relevant, leading to privacy concerns and potentially inappropriate responses.

Solution

Provide transparent memory management interfaces where users can view all stored information, selectively mark memories as important, temporary, or to be forgotten, and see exactly when and how the AI uses stored context in its responses.

Examples in the Wild

Interactive Code Example

Implementation & Considerations

Implementation Guidelines

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Provide a clear, searchable interface for users to view all information the AI has stored about them

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Allow granular control to mark memories as important, temporary, or to be forgotten

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Implement 'forget this' commands that immediately remove information from AI context

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Show visual indicators when AI is using stored context to inform its responses

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Enable bulk memory management with categories like 'work', 'personal', 'temporary'

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Provide memory export functionality so users can backup or transfer their AI's context

Design Considerations

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Complexity of maintaining conversation quality when users selectively remove context

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Risk of AI making mistakes when critical context is forgotten or temporarily ignored

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Storage and retrieval efficiency when managing large amounts of selective memory data

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User understanding of how selective forgetting impacts AI response quality

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Privacy implications of storing memory metadata even after content is deleted

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Balance between giving users control and preventing fragmented or incoherent AI behavior

Related Patterns